Как правильно знакомиться в Интернете
Эксперты международного сайта знакомств eDarling провели опрос пользователей и выяснили, какие данные действительно важны при знакомстве онлайн и что может отпугнуть потенциальных кандидатов от начала общения.
Вопреки популярному мнению, что фотография — единственное, на что обращает внимание противоположный пол при знакомстве в Интернете, оказалось, что ее значение важно не для всех. Более 60% пользователей готовы начать общаться с человеком, в профиле которого фотография отсутствует. Между тем, по-настоящему оттолкнуть потенциальных знакомых от начала общения могут не морщины и лишний вес на снимке, а совсем другие качества.
Так, 54% опрошенных сказали, что их отталкивают люди, которые откровенно любуются собой. 42% не станут заводить знакомство с человеком, выпячивающим свою сексуальность или слишком большое внимание уделяющим сексу. 46% не рассматривают кандидатов, которые предоставляют скудную информацию о себе. 45% избегают общения с негативно настроенными людьми , а 44% не выносят шаблонных фраз в лексиконе потенциального друга. Среди лидеров в списке самых отталкивающих данных в анкетах оказалась безграмотность. Больше половины пользователей, 54%, не хотят знакомиться с людьми, которые пишут с грамматическими ошибками.
Размещая свои фотографии на сайтах, соискатели должны знать, что и тут не все так просто. Даже если потенциальный жених или невеста чудо как хороши собой, неправильное фото может перевести кандидата в разряд невостребованных. Какие фотографии больше всего отпугивают людей, настроенных на серьезное знакомство? 56% не выносят изображений с вечеринок — такие анкеты сразу пролистываются, даже если их хозяин суперпозитивен и пишет без ошибок. Вопреки ожиданиям кандидатов, выкладывающих свои откровенные снимки, 55% пользователей такие анкеты не рассматривают, будь даже их герой обладателем фигуры молодого Шварценеггера или форм Бриджит Бордо. Половина опрошенных сказали, что их раздражают фото в темных очках — что вполне можно понять. 42% не выносят чрезмерный фотошоп — так что не нужно делать из себя Барби, если хотите познакомиться с нормальным человеком. 26% не нравятся групповые фотографии — снимки с однокурсниками или коллегами по научной конференции оставьте для домашнего альбома. Четверть пользователей сильно раздражает «селфи» - человек, сам себя фотографирующий, выглядит немного нелепо. Всегда можно попросить кого-то сфотографировать вас.
Вот что говорит психолог-консультант сайта Сэм Оуэн:
«С детства нас приучают «вписываться» в общество, мы подгоняем себя под одобренные социумом модели и нормы поведения. В итоге нам становится трудно позволить себе просто быть самими собой и отличаться от остальных. Поэтому и в Интернете велик соблазн использовать шаблонные фразы, чтобы не отличаться от большинства пользователей, и выбирать фотографии «как у всех», например, очень сексуальные или чрезмерно отретушированные снимки. Я бы посоветовала не стесняться включать в профиль свою фотографию. Наш мозг устроен подобным образом, что при недостаточном количестве информации он стремится заполнить пробелы. Даже без фотографии ваш профиль может привлечь много внимания, однако, не зная как новый знакомый выглядит на самом деле, мозг включает фантазию и придумывает образ самостоятельно. При личной встрече практически гарантировано несоответствие вымышленного образа с реальностью, которое способно разрушить любое свидание — даже если на самом деле вы отлично выглядите. Поэтому не бойтесь выкладывать фото, пусть оно и кажется вам недостаточно красивым по сравнению со снимками других пользователей. Помните, что смысл анкет на сайтах знакомств — показать вашу индивидуальность и найти человека, который оценит именно вас».
Как правильно познакомиться с девушкой
На что при знакомстве женщины обращают внимание в первую очередь? Можете не гадать - у социологов есть конкретные данные.
Что нас раздражает в мужчинах
Социологи провели опрос среди жительниц крупных городов России и выяснили, какие качества в мужчинах особенно неприятны, а с чем дамы готовы мириться.
Названы самые сексуальные женские профессии
Какие женские профессии считают сексуальными сами женщины, и какие - сексуально не привлекательными? Это выяснили эксперты-социологи.
Секс помогает справляться с трудностями
Как ведет себя женщина, когда у ее избранника появляются финансовые проблемы? Специалисты провели социологическое исследование и вот что выяснили.
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|Светлана, 11.06.2015 17:32:17|
Интересно, спасибо! Может еще посоветуете тренинги или психологические приёмы, что бы не допускать ошибок, и тем самым повысить шанс на успех? Надоело уже одиночество(((
|Анна, 30.06.2015 16:08:32|
Я использовала тренинги Павла Ракова по саморазвитию. Мне помогло, так что скорее всего и вам поможет)
|evykzzcrn, 02.09.2015 18:51:58|
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Boro officials have been confident of completing a move for the Uruguay international for a number of weeks now, but the transfer could not be finalised until the striker returned fr om an extended break in the wake of this summer鈥檚 Copa America.
Ash said Brekke was suffering fr om 鈥渢ight legs鈥?and that he was held out as a precaution.
The Admirals have just four wins in their last 17 games, including one in the last six at home.
Two fast-charging stations have just been installed at the University of Wisconsin Milwaukee, which are said to be the first public DC fast-chargers in Milwaukee County. They will charge electric vehicles in 30 to 90 minutes, whereas AC stations take fr om four to eight hours.
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WAUWATOSA - Someone shot a man inside a popular bowling alley in Wauwatosa early Saturday.
But they have also put in plenty of calls in the hope of bringing in an alternative striker to compete with Jermain Defoe to lead the line on a regular basis, which could also see Steven Fletcher and/or Danny Graham move on.
z A decision has been made and a few more than a dozen Americans actually know whether Darren Wilson will be indicted but is the St. Louis suburb a tinderbox? Charlie LeDuff has spent the last week in Ferguson and he says no.Charlie LeDuff and The Americans team is around the corner from wh ere Brown was shot. Out of respect to the 18-year-old's death, Charlie will not be live from that scene.The family of Michael Brown was notified a few hours ago that a grand jury had reached its decision. Not long after the announcement, schools in the area began canceling classes for Tuesday and a large amount of police arrived. Business owners began closing up shop, locking doors, barricading windows, and leaving before the announcement is unveiled.On the week of Thanksgiving, Charlie made time to deliver a message to his family."To my family and the family of my partners Matt and Doug: we love them and remember that even adults fight but we have to respect each other."Charlie said the mood in Ferguson is different from August. In the three months that have passed, people have had time to digest what happened and a larger police presence has arrived. He doesn't believe Ferguson will see what Detroit saw in 1967 but there will likely be some isolated incidents."My sense is we're going to be okay."The press conference is scheduled for 9 pm ET and will be carried live on The Americans YouTube channel.
Slick road conditions due to the snow are complicating transit through Morris County Tuesday, but NJ.com is watching closely to see how bad it gets.
鈥淪ome players need an arm around them, some need a rollicking. It鈥檚 the same in school. Some students need a cajoling, but there are others wh ere the message will go in one ear and out the other, so they might need a harsher word. Very rarely do I shout, but now and again I might.鈥?
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|mhyijanyp, 02.09.2015 21:53:23|
10/22 around 8:30 p.m.: Leaves the Gutter and takes an Uber car to get home.
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That said, though, he will have been pleased with Newcastle鈥檚 attacking exploits, with Wijnaldum鈥檚 presence in the pivotal 鈥榥umber ten鈥?role providing some welcome balance.
The international teams in the Champions Trophy have exploded out of the starting blocks and we are all trying to see their form to know who to back, but it isn鈥檛 quite as defined as the 100 metres at the London Olympics, with Usain Bolt as the hot favourite. This field looks full of competition, but the home team has to have an advantage and the performance England produced against New Zealand at Trent Bridge would have sent a shudder down a few opposing coaches鈥?spines!
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Whereas the gym once had pennants featuring every Marquette player who had made it to the NBA, it now showcases contemporary stars such as Dwyane Wade and Jimmy Butler, as well as a mural featuring Rivers when he coached the Boston Celtics to an NBA title.
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Disputes over territory in the South China Sea have been a challenging issue, but China is committed to handling them in the spirit of peace and cooperation. In 2002, China and Asean countries signed the Declaration on the Conduct of Parties in the South China Sea (DOC). In 2011, the relevant parties reached consensus on guidelines for follow-up actions for the implementation of the DOC and launched a cooperation within the framework of the DOC. In 2013, the parties concerned held consultations on a "code of conduct" (COC) in the South China Sea within the framework of the DOC. Generally speaking, despite the existing disputes, the overall situation in the South China Sea has been stable, allowing freedom of navigation that has helped it become one of the most economically dynamic regions in the world.
That move, which raised 拢106m, was believed to be the largest float on the AIM鈥檚 pharmaceutical and biotechnology sector in 2014, and the region鈥檚 biggest ever initial public offering on the AIM.
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The 拢4.5bn contract, to last 20 years, will be what Mr Hammond called an "innovative" PFI deal, making Hitachi responsible for building, owning, supplying and, also, maintaining its trains.
In Hot Rize's heyday, Wernick, a devout Earl Scruggs disciple, occasionally ran his banjo through a phaser effects pedal designed for a guitar, a choice that was then verboten.
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|cxrcccrda, 02.09.2015 22:17:10|
Police said the man walked into an area hospital just before 9:30 p.m. suffering fr om a gunshot wound to his upper body.
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d The July 2011 lawsuit sought damages fr om Quinn for breach of contract after the former defensive end and eventual NFL first-round draft pick changed management from Champion Pro Consulting Group and Carl Carey to Impact Sports Football.
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UNSW entered three groups of four students in the challenge, placing first, second and third. The winning group also won last year.
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Jindal鈥檚 rhetoric points to the growing militarization of American society. Aware of growing discontent within broader layers of the working class, the American political and media establishment seeks to divert attention from the growing chasm of social inequality by scapegoating immigrant workers and transforming the US-Mexico border into an armed camp. In this regard, Jindal鈥檚 policies bear little difference to that of any of the Republican or Democratic presidential candidates.
The charges automatically put the Geyser and Weier in adult court under Wisconsin law. They could now face 65 years in prison if they're convicted.
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Whenever possible, we try to be proactive and stop the fraud before it happens. Oftentimes, it takes months for fraud to occur on cards associated with these types of fraud, said Peter X. Engel, executive vice president of consumer banking for Johnson Financial.
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We believe that the certain knowledge of a long period in prison would underline how dangerous a single blow can be, and it would help deter a foolish young man in a violent situation.
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There had been nothing to choose between the sides in their two league meetings this season 鈥?both ending in draws 鈥?so it was no real surprise that there was very little between them here either.
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Jones, of Shrewsbury Street, Hartlepool, was jailed for four years after admitting attempted rape.
China agreed before the ASEAN talks to start substantive negotiations on a code of conduct to establish a set of rules aimed at avoiding conflict.
"None of us had really experienced it before," he adds. "We went to Antwerp and the fans took over. I鈥檓 struggling to say how good it felt. You were coming through a foreign city on the bus and there were just Geordies everywhere. It was really something proud. To go to a place we鈥檇 never heard of and play was just unbelievable.
Even with Canada鈥檚 economy sliding into recession, Mulcair and other NDP spokesmen have been quick to recommit the NDP to a balanced budget. Indeed, in his maiden election speech Mulcair attacked the Conservatives who have imposed tens of billions of social spending cuts over the past five years, fr om the right, for having added $150 billion to Canada鈥檚 accumulated debt since the 2008 global financial crisis.
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"He's one of the most intense human beings I've ever met," said Grill. "We all take from him and attribute that into our own playing styles."
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DESPITE the arrivals of Anthony Reveillere and Sebastien Coates, Sunderland could do with a new man at the back. Since the 8-0 hammering at Southampton, the have really tightened things up.
James says the most elaborate private jet he has seen is an interior entirely decorated 鈥?from walls to ceiling 鈥?with Roman murals.
She explains: "We are living longer than we used to, we're working longer, buying our houses later, saving less, supporting our kids for longer.
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For those who like the idea of acquiring new knowledge and skills, but lack the time or the inclination to attend regular classes, then distance learning is the perfect solution. In this scenario,
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County Durham-trained Mecca鈥檚 Angel was a late withdrawal an hour or so before the race, with Michael Dods deciding that the ground had become too firm for his stable star.
Lingard鈥檚 follow-up effort was a weak affair, but the Derby youngster, who is on loan at Pride Park fr om Manchester United, made amends as he fired England level moments later.
Other reforms include deeper labor market reforms, including changes to collective bargaining rules, liberalization of the country's energy market, and more spending cuts.
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I didn't necessarily follow the system he gave, Dietrich said. I'd have a set of blinders on and just follow the puck. I came in with a decent amount of skill, but as far as being a rounded hockey player, I still had a long way to go. Two years later I'm getting a lot closer to becoming the rounded hockey player that everyone wants to see. There's still work to be done.
e 鈥淲e鈥檝e had lads away with England, Galey unavailable with suspension, Siddy out injured for six weeks, then a couple of lads back and a couple more go.
Steven C. Deller, an economist from the University of Wisconsin-Madison, said the economic impact from recreational events like this oftentimes are more modest than people think they're going to be.
Yorkshire were still favourites at this stage as they set about their modest victory target, but things started badly when Andrew Gale was trapped lbw by Sam Curran for only three.
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The accelerated reader initiative uses a computer quiz to test pupils' understanding of the book they have read. It analyses their performance and recommends books appropriate to their ability, which rewards their efforts and encourages them to read. It also logs how many words they have read. A number of Longfield pupils have read over three million words.
AOD has seen double-digit growth in 2014, Saber says, and is expected to continue growing in 2015.
A striker who has won 40 senior caps for her country, the 26-year-old will hope to make her Sunderland debut when the Women鈥檚 Super League resumes after a mid-season break in the middle of next month.
The Blades went close again shortly before the break, but while Adams鈥?deflected strike appeared to have wrong-footed Tim Krul, the Newcastle goalkeeper responded superbly to claw the ball away with an excellent one-handed save.
|gjjggkhk, 03.09.2015 18:16:02|
Sterling criticized V. Stiviano 鈥?purportedly the female voice on the tapes 鈥?for posting pictures of her with black athletes Magic Johnson and Matt Kemp.
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The 63-year-old River Vale woman accused of drunk driving hadn't had a drop of alcohol prior to the accident, her lawyer told The Record.
"Just 15 minutes of 'me time' can have a huge impact on your productivity and wellbeing for the rest of the day, depending on what you do during that 15 minutes," says Cheryl Rickman, author of The Flourish Handbook and creator of the 30 Day Flourish Challenge which sets challengers of 5-15 minute actionable tasks each day to boost their wellbeing (www.flourishhandbook.com).
s CLEARWATER JUNCTION 鈥?After stepping atop a loose rock lying along the banks of the Blackfoot River and stumbling, Kristin Fisher couldn鈥檛 help but think of her father.
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2. Involve kids.Before you shop, talk with kids about your expectations. If you are struggling financially, you do not need to worry your children. However, even young children are old enough to understand when parents or guardians are trying to make smart decisions. That means making choices rather than purchasing everything that catches their eye. Look at the shopping list with your children. Make a plan before you leave home, and work together while you are shopping. Adolescents can take charge of their clothing budgets. During the younger years, parents might wish to supervise. Later, kids can shop on their own as part of learning how to make financial decisions.
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Terry Meunier called this newspaper to say he would not be voting Tuesday, the first election in Wisconsin that required a photo ID to cast a ballot.
Speaking to reporters in Houston by phone from New York City, Watt spoke enthusiastically and boldly.
4 Quarterbacks selected among the first 12 picks (1. Cam Newton, Carolina; 8. Jake Locker, Tennessee; 10. Blaine Gabbert, Jacksonville; 12. Christian Ponder, Minnesota).
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w Moreover, social media also carry rapid doses of instant information about protests (admittedly, of dubious reliability), sometimes across long distances. Although spreading news about government depredation is no guarantee of successful revolution - consider the Iranian Green movement of two years ago - it can certainly help to shift public attitudes away from a regime that is in the process of cracking down.
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The Students replied with two converted tries to be level at half-time then a penalty put them ahead. But Tynedale went back in front with a penalty try, Brett Connon adding his third conversion, before Ben Frankland touched down late in the game.
Royals coach Wayne Southwell said he was delighted to be a part of a wonderful team performance given the tough road his club has endured.
6. Be honest with your parents about your finances.